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LADIES LISTEN TO ME PLEASE!!!!
Added: 4/7/2008
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LADIES LISTEN UP!!!!
 


Ladies please listen to me because I’m here to tell you my story.
My mom always told me to be careful when having sex because it's not a game.  I still think this was the best health advice ever given to me.  Mainly because it came from my mother ;o)  I understood her and i was careful. But something still turned out wrong...

     My 11th grade year was a happy one.  I was 16 years old and loving life.  I loved school and sports.  That was my life.  Soon entered boys.  My mother warned me against the sweet words, pretty lips, and strong arms of a man.  And I listened to her. I really did.....that is until one day in February.  I remember the month because I was supposed to be at choir practice for the Black History Program at my school.  But instead I let this one particular boy whisper sweet nothings in my ear.  He asked me over one day after school and before I knew it my shirt was off and my pants were somewhere lost in the tangle of sheets.  As I lay there I found myself thinking "Thank God he had protection".I was actually ashamed of myself.  I couldn't believe I had let myself fall into that predicament.



So my senior year came and I actually found someone that I deeply cared about.  After some time being with my current boyfriend, we had a long talk about sex and we decided we should give it a try.  I went to my mom and asked for Birth control.  She said she would take me to the clinic because I would have to have a pap smear first.


  I was verrrrrrrrrrrry nervous.  But to my surprise it didn't even hurt and it was quick!!  But all that happiness soon faded when my test came back abnormal..........  



When I went back to the doctor, she told me I had HPV.  I'm sitting there the salutatorian of my class with a 4.0 GPA, and I did not know what HPV was.  What I couldn't (and still can't) understand was why I had contracted the virus when we used a condom.....................



Turns out HPV, or Human Pamplona Virus, is the leading cause of cervical cancer in women.  It has no symptoms in males and virtually no symptoms in females.  Sometimes you can go symptom free for years, or in my case a year.  The only reason I became aware of my situation was because I had a pap smear.  There are several strands of HPV but only a very small amount of them actually cause Cervical Cancer.  I was one of the lucky ones.



     I had to make about 3 more trips to the doctor.  And as of today I am HPV FREE!!!  Ladies and Gentlemen please take heed to this, get yourselves checked out at least once a year.  I can't stress enough how important this is!!



This is to my pre-teens.  If it has the word SEX in it then it IS SEX!!! Don’t believe them when they say oral sex isn't sex.  IT IS!!!!!!  And when you are mentally mature enough to handle sex, ladies please start to use birth control and make sure you use protection.  And also when you become sexually active that is the time to start having your annual checkups.      


     Also to my GLBT people this also applies to you!!!!  This rule applies to everyone!! Contrary to popular belief AIDS is NOT a gay disease.  STDs can happen to anyone no matter what their preference



This is Ursula telling you all to BE SAFE!!

P.S.  It took a lot of my courage to write this.  AT first i wasn't going to enter this campaign, but i thought about it, and it needed to be said.  I wish someone had told me about HPV....  But if this blog could keep at least on person from contracting HPV then I have accomplished something.

 

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AmericanWo man
4/24/2008 6:19 PM PT
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Thank you for being brave. Sometimes hearing it from someone "unknown" is better than a dr or nurse or most of a parent. As the parent of 3 and a Nurse I get all of it. My kids got a real tough lesson in sex ed. Up and above most kids but there are always the mistakes.
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4/28/2008 6:19 PM PT
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Well said...Thanks for being real and honest about the truth on "Safe Sex". Your Aunt (Wisconin)
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sonali
4/26/2008 5:51 PM PT
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thanks for sharing that experience. you made it easy to relate to. i do have a question though: how DID you get HPV when you used a condom? are condoms only 99% effective or something? oh, and, thanks for voting for me!
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CatchMyPas s
6/4/2008 9:47 PM PT
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Here is mY Great BIG ThankYou f0r Sharing with aLL 0f us!
~*~ XoXoXo ~*~
Please remember to vote for mY mOmmY ~+~
SuppOrT &;o)LoVeACE
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jilladair
6/4/2008 11:50 AM PT
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so personal and informative! very well written
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kttcs_nap
6/4/2008 8:11 AM PT
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supp0rt here!! pls dont forget CHad!! thanks so much!! good luck !!
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bgodinez
6/4/2008 6:11 AM PT
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Great Advice. Good Luck on your Final Day. :~)
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anmeier
6/4/2008 1:19 AM PT
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One final vote for your great advice!! :) You've definitely inspired me!
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ashleyspen guin
6/3/2008 8:54 PM PT
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bgodinez
6/3/2008 5:49 AM PT
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I'm all for safe sex or NO sex. great entry.
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murfles3
6/2/2008 6:42 PM PT
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GREAT message! ;0)
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ashleyspen guin
6/2/2008 6:37 PM PT
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anmeier
6/2/2008 1:36 PM PT
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Way to give the women out there some good advice! :) I know I can never have too much advice!
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murfles3
6/1/2008 3:03 PM PT
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Sunday smiles for ya! ;0)
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ashleyspen guin
6/1/2008 1:14 PM PT
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busytown
6/1/2008 10:36 AM PT
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this is realli good n reali inspiring;; actualy this reminded me i have to get my 3rd HPV shot..thankx and this is a great campaign...glad you entered! plese check out my campaigns if you get tha chance!
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jilladair
6/1/2008 3:26 AM PT
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Sending Love and support to my Wachlist...have a Great day~~
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5/31/2008 8:42 AM PT
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