Hi, My name is Richard, divorced, and was recently called a confirmed bachelor, I had never really thought of myself as that. But being single for 22 yrs. they must be right. I have 5 kids, I get to see ever so often. And that leaves me with my work. I do most of the electrical and mechanical repairs for my company. And it feels good to have a job i really like doing. It's some of the people there that takes the enjoyment out of it. Hence, don't let them have free rent in your head, let it go.